I was in the desert somewhere at night and I notice a hole with sand being pushed out of it. I know it's a tarantula wasp by watching it wriggle out of the hole. Then it started flying around and flew past my head. It came around and I try to blow it with my breath to make it go away. Then I am with a skinny white girl with a white tube top and daisy dukes on. I asked her to be my girlfriend and when she said yes I was so happy that I hold her in my arms and put my head on her heart. Then I thought about taking her out somewhere so I can show her off but I end up kissing her neck and then she kissed. Her kiss felt real enough and then she said she needed to brush her teeth.
There are two different themes present in this dream. The first one relates to fear and anxiety represented by the tarantula wasp. It is common to have insects or spiders in dreams when we are experiencing anxiety or feeling threatened by something. The desert and the night time also suggest isolation and loneliness, which may be contributing to these feelings of anxiety.
The second theme in the dream relates to relationships and emotional fulfillment. The white girl represents a desire for companionship and the need to connect with someone emotionally. The fact that she said yes to your request to be your girlfriend suggests that you are seeking a romantic connection. The kiss represents intimacy and affection. However, the fact that she needed to brush her teeth after the kiss may suggest that there is still some emotional or physical distance between you and potential partners. Overall, this dream may be reflective of your desire to overcome feelings of anxiety and loneliness by finding emotional fulfillment and companionship.